Have you ever faced a situation when you texted a girl on an online dating site but never got a reply? If yes, maybe it’s time you try a different approach.
Girls on these sites receive a lot of messages and obviously can’t reply to each of them. Naturally, they pick the most attractive one, which is where you should focus. Try to stand out and send something different, a message that she can’t resist.
Don't have any idea on how to do that, just stick with the following point, and you will get what you want.
Leave The Desperate Feeling Behind
Imagine you are a beautiful young girl with a pretty girl with a charming smile. What is the thing you will hear the most on an online dating site? Of course, compliments about your looks and smile.
So, you see, telling a girl about her beauty in the very first message isn't a very great idea. She will simply ignore your message as there are lots of other text in her inbox telling the same thing.
This text will also create a sense that you are more interested in physical appearances. You will reach to this compliment stage but first, find something to attract your lady love.
What’s Up? Is The Reason For Maximum Let You Down
What's up and how are you are the worst messages that you ever use as a conversation starter. Let's say she does respond to your message and says she'okay, what then? You are back to the same square from where it all started. That is why most women try to avoid this awkward situation and never reply to these messages.
Play a long game. Try asking about your common hobby or interest like a sport. There are sports schedules, gears, brands, tricks and more, which will go a long way.
Keep it simple, Silly
You start a conversation with a question about something and everything goes well but then you realize, she is better in that particular thing. So, you try to pretend to be someone you are not, and that's where it all goes wrong. The girl sees through it and then the whole thing crash.
Just remember that you don't need to be the best; being yourself is enough. Remember, you are here for a date, not a competition.
In fact, if she likes your way and approach, telling the truth will increase your chances. She will make a little fun of you and then promise to help you improve. Well, congratulation date arranged even if it’s for a hobby lesson.
Lose The Battle With The Biggest Guns
Never, literally, never try to win against a girl. As rude as may sound, but women never like a guy who makes them look inferior. They are a little proud type so even if you have a better chance of winning, let her win the argument. This gesture will not only prevent your conversation from ending but also give a boost to it.
She will get something to taunt you and women love that leverage. Moreover, she will feel respected and probably stay with you for a long time or maybe forever.
Bonus Tip
Great message idea, extraordinary charm and then everything goes to dust because of you of the small spelling mistakes.
You may not notice these minor errors, but she always does it. Girls tend to get attracted to guys who do everything in proper order, and a mistake in the initial stage of messaging will not be accepted. So, read everything carefully before you send it.
