Want to send a perfect and charming message to your date whom you've just met online? But, you have no context to build. Are you still wondering how to follow up with your date?
If yes, this article might help you out.
Sending follow up messages could be daunting as you do not want to send any wrong message. Every minute of it can become stressful and pressurizing.
However, if you play smartly, follow up messages can lead to dates in no time.
So, take a look at some tips on how you can convert follow up messages into dates.
Make Sure To Set Correct Tone from the Beginning
At the early stage, you are supposed to be excited about getting to know each other.
You want to feel like you two already have something unique and similar values rather than to hear the exact old dialogues.
So, if you are starting with the same old lines, you are creating a weak base.
In most cases, people start with the tone of not knowing each other at all. This may end up harshly with no passion. Also, it can be discouraging for both as you are not inspiring him or her to open up with you. Moreover, by asking awkward questions, you are not making your partner comfortable.
So, let's come to the original part of how to set the right tone?
Make sure to send messages that encourage some existing connection. Now, it is totally up to you to how you are spicing up the conversation to the next level.
Ask Some Genuine Things
Ask some genuine stuff that you are curious to know about. Do you both have similar values or not? Is your partner conservative or open-minded? What does he think about something you are passionate about?
Some of the questions that you may ask are:
"What would you like to do in your spare time?" "Do you believe people are good or bad?" "What is your favorite meal that you want to cook for yourself?"
If you feel the need for something unique, you can always begin these messages with something like "I know this is out of the blue but…", "I have been thinking about you all day," "I have to tell you something that just happened…"
However, you must keep in mind that there is no rule of executing follow-up messages. You have to connect with your partner uniquely as if you had some chemistry before.
Keep Up With the Previous Conversation You Had
You can continue from the previous conversation you had last day like what did you laugh about? What did you surprisingly learn about your partner? What did he/she tell you about the next plans?
Continue Sharing Your Activities with Your Partner
Share some exciting and fun moments you just had. Tell your partner about something interesting you read or watched or you can ask question like "what is your favorite holiday destination?" Discuss places you want to visit. Send pictures to each other. Ask each other's opinions and help for specific situations.
Conclusion
The only key to remain in touch with each other is to have meaningful conversations with some spark and uniqueness. Start correctly and cherish every moment!
