Imagine making an online dating profile and getting an inbox, full of messages and profiles recommendations every day. Sound very frustrating, isn't it? But it is a normal thing for most of the women on online dating sites.
You are not necessarily the only guy who is looking for a lady on that site. There are many other, and some, who are far better than you. The only thing that can help you here is the way you present yourself and approach someone.
Let’s find out how you can do so without faking yourself.
Know What You Need
Once a wise man said, “don’t dive into an ocean to learn swimming.” The same policy applies to the worlds of dating. You don't log in to a casual dating site for a serious relationship. There are applications for all kinds of relation from no string dating to a serious relationship. So, decide your preference and then sign up for it.
Getting to a relation and then figuring out that it’s not what you want, will mean a bad dating experience for the other person. It can have a drastic emotional effect, especially if the girl you dated is sensitive.
Step Into The Shoes Of A Girl
As weird as it may sounds, but it's a bull's eye tip for a successful dating life. Think it like, you are a girl looking for a partner online, what all quality and what type of profile, will you prefer. Take a keen look at the profiles of other guys on different dating sites, the kind of pictures they are using and the language they prefer.
This study will help you analyze popular trends and also give you an edge for an attractive profile. Personally, you can also create a female profile for yourself and see what types of messages and reaction you get. Who knows, you may find something a bit too attractive and useful in these reactions.
Don’t Hide Your Weird Parts
No one, literally no one in this world is perfect and presenting yourself as someone who is, isn't a great idea. It will create a feeling that you are faking your true nature and no one likes a fake person.
Another mistake is to write about your traits rather than demonstrating it. The girl scrolling the profile doesn't know you, why would she believe your words. So, share stories on your profile, write a weird introduction, a lot of different profile pictures, and let her decide for herself.
And, don’t use group photographs, trophies, cars and give her a reason to compare you. Moreover, never use a cropped picture which shows an anonymous hand on your shoulder.
The thing is, it doesn't matter if you have a particular set of qualities or not. A genuine person who likes you will accept all your goods and bad traits.
Research and Personalize Everything
Imagine, swiping someone to start a chat and receiving a boring “Hey what’s up.” It kills all the interest in just a snap. Obviously, it isn’t something you want from someone, you think is your soul mate. So, just, personalize your first impression. Send something like, "you mentioned you like skiing" or something that exhibits common interests among you both.
After you start to get responses from the person, don't stop digging. Her social media account and other application profiles may have more data about her likes and dislikes which can come in handy for successful dating.
No matter what kind of personality you have, there is always someone looking for someone like you. Be the best of you, and sooner or later you will meet the girl whose smile will light your whole life.
