Hello Ladies! The dating world has changed and the rules for dating too with the invention of the internet. Gone is the time when people use to say that “Girls don’t chase boys.” As technology progresses and with advancements in society, the rule of the first contact has changed. Moreover by merely showing interest in someone you are not chasing someone. Are you? No!
Stand out from the rest and initiate the communication if you like someone. Nowadays men too like the first move by a woman. They like the woman’s attention and confidence. It boosts up their chances of not getting rejected.
Observe why it’s vital and how the tactful initiation is beneficial for a woman.
Your choice matters
Why take a back seat and wait for invites or emails of men who show interest in you, when you have the option of choosing first and initiating the chat. Everyone has their own choice. It’s quite normal if the person won’t show up whom you have contacted; they might be busy with others or not your type. Doesn’t matter, if your invite is not responded; you have other better options to go for, to connect with the guy of your interest.
The First Move by a Woman Generates Man’s Interest
Females generally believe that if a man is interested in their profile, he will contact by making the first move. Well, it’s true! But how a person can assume and recognize you from the thousands of profile’s that you too are interested in them.
Beginning the first move would generate more chances for a relation to kicking off, as you showed your interest in making a connection.
Men Love Women’s Attention
We all have our set of rules, and similarly, men do have their criteria of liking or disliking a woman. They feel flattered by the attention of a female, particularly when one fits their criteria.
Some of the women still believe that men should show interest first; they should send an invite or email. Well, they do post a lot of emails, and most of them never get a response too because of the woman’s lack of interest.
By just sending a friendly mail, you are setting yourself apart from the crowd. Who knows when other singletons are waiting for that guy’s response, by that time you are already in a chatting phase with your interested man merely by just an initiation.
Feel comfortable and express your interest to know your potential partners. Communication is the key to see if there is any spark in your relation. Doesn’t matter who begins first, it’s just a curiosity to know more about your match and interests, but there is no harm in initiating communication and starting a conversation with no or least expectations.
Approach your liked match, try it and see how it works out for you. Hope you get a happy and lifetime commitment.Good Luck!
