Undoubtedly, online dating is intimidating. You may fall for a multitude of features on offer but here is the catch. You may make mistakes. Caution is required immensely to get things right. To help you enjoy dating online, we have compiled of list of things you should and shouldn't do.
DO the following
- Know the Person
It's important. Use the email address before you take the next step. Make use of the information on their profile. It will help you start rolling the conversation. It is especially useful for shy and introvert people.
- Be open-minded
You have joined an online dating platform; a pre-requisite is to be as open-minded as you can be. Your reason for online dating could be any: you don't have anyone known left you would want to get close to; a small town, where you live, everyone knows everyone; or you feel jittery talking to strangers. The reason could be one, two or all. Remember, you joined it to meet people who can chat freely. So, drop the inhibitions.
- Be Prepared For the Worst
It can happen to anyone. You may be getting drawn to a person, but someone at the other end may be looking for a spark, and he/she feels it to be missing. You will feel bad, but hey you may not meet ever again. So chill!
- Honesty Is the Best Policy
It sounds clichéd. Yes, it does. Be honest. You must utilize the moment but be true to yourself. If they suffice your requirements, then take it further or click "Next".
DON’T do the following
- Talk about the Ex
Don't irritate your date with your ex's conversations. He/she may ask you, but they aren't interested in knowing the whole story the whole night. Spare them the pain.
- Keep high Expectations
Don't carry high hopes. You must give some time to both of you. A date is a date not a guarantor of a life-long relationship (though we don't deny it, some people do find their mates in this fashion, but most don't). Sometimes, there is no spark at all, so let it go!
- Fall for the Looks
Physical attraction is the first stopover but don't go for it alone. Yes, if you are attracted, there won't be any chemistry, but that is just one part of the game. Take some time. Know them well. Understand the person: how they are, what are their desires in life, what do they love and hate and so forth. Rest will take place at the appropriate time.
- Don't Think About It When Offline
Online dating can be exhausting. Give yourself ample time. Things don't happen overnight. Also, you aren't supposed to check these sites every hour of the day or every day of the week. So, when you are offline, enjoy your life with friends and family and forget about online dating. You must make a balance between your dating life and your life. Period!
Parting Thoughts
Do have fun but don't forget the pointers mentioned in this article. If you want more advice on online dating, do let us know in the comment section below.
