You are single, waiting for a man who will fulfil all your dreams. One day you come across someone who smiles at you. It makes you think whether he is flirting or is seriously attracted.
It is often difficult to make out the real intentions of a person.
You return the smile and turn away. After a while, when you look back, he smirks and raises a toast. It makes you jittery. As you get up to move out of the place, you watch him walking towards you. You feel nervous and excited. You exchange greetings and engage in some fun conversation. You like the twinkle in his eyes and find his sense of humour enjoyable.
Things start rolling. He takes your number, and you both begin exchanging messages. You meet him again and spend time together. The texts continue to be exchanged.
Certain things confuse you. He seems to be attracted and so into you, yet he is not asking you out. It is maddening. Then you start building up excuses in your head. He must be shy, or busy or you didn't show enough signs of interest. It is basic female nature. We tend to blame ourselves for others follies.
But it is vital to know whether the person is flirting is actually interested.
How to Know If the Person Is Merely Flirting
Well, if a man just sat next to you talked to you for a while, took your number and exchanges messages. He is basically coming and disappearing, he is undoubtedly flirting with you or having fun but is certainly not serious about you.
The Serious Intent
A guy with serious intent will never flirt and then disappear. He will ask for your number and call you in a few days. Furthermore, he will ask you out to spend more time with you. He wants to know more about you. He is curious and wants to know more about you.
When a man is serious, he will try to impress to win you but also make sure you are happy in his company. It matters to him. He enjoys your company as it makes him feel good about you. He calls you more often and asks questions about you.
Flirting vs. True Attraction
Ladies, if you ever come across a man who keeps on flirting but never bothers to ask you out, do not waste time on him. Moving on is far better. Also, if a man is merely interested in sending a flirty text but never wants to see you otherwise, move on.
If the man wants to see you at least once a week, flirts with you but doesn't call you to know about you. Why waste time leave him.
These signs are of flirting. The shenanigans are all meant for fun. So, though he may act like he is into you, but doesn't talk or call or asks out, then he is not serious.
It implies he is not the right guy for you.
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